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Jonathan Secker ‘Jon’

1962 - 2021

In loving memory of Jon Secker who sadly passed away on 29th March 2021, aged 58 years.

Funeral Service Details

Funeral Service Location

Kingsdown Crematorium

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Donations in memory of Jon would be appreciated for Prospect and Macmillan.

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    My wonderful Jon, you are my everything, you are my world. Thank you for always making me laugh and for all the wonderful memories we made together. I will forever feel the deep love that we have for each other, that is like no other.

    I will love you forever and always.

    Your Joanne
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    Joanne Secker
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    Anonymous
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    Our Girls grew up together Vicky has fond memories of Jon he was a lovely man, brilliant father and as any one could see he loved Joanne unconditionally he was one in a million . RIP John you will be missed by many. Love to your girls , wife & family. Xx

    Georgina Pyatt
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    My incredible daddy ❤️

    I will always treasure the time I had with you and I am so profoundly grateful to have had you as my daddy, thank you for everything.

    You are forever in my heart. I love you daddy ❤️

    Olivia Secker
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    Jon,

    The stereotypical image of a father-in-law is an over-bearing, protective and difficult man. You were the total opposite. You welcomed me into your family with a love and support I could not have ever dreamed of.
    You show me what is me the joy what joy there is to be had in the smallest of things and give me the understanding of how to tackle the most complex of problems. I write this in present tense, because you will be with me, every day through every issue, advising me what to do next. My memory of your advice and wisdom will stay with me always.

    I love you Jon

    Dean
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    Thank you so much for being the best dad I ever could have, I miss you more than words can say. I will always be inspired by your incredible courage and how you fought so strongly for so long.

    You will forever live on and be with me in my heart, through your words of wisdom and guidance, your positive outlook on life and of course, your excellent taste in music!

    I’m extremely proud to be your daughter, love you always daddy❤️

    Rosie Secker
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    I knew Johnathan from school.
    Condolences to you all. You are all in my thoughts

    Karen Coulthard ( nee Smith )

    I could not have wished to have worked with such a great man as Jon. He was not only great at his job and brilliant with customers, but somone with whom I enjoyed many after work beverages whilst working away from home. He will be sadly missed by all!

    Phil Price
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    Uncle John, All our lives are better for having had you in them. Your open & accepting mind and heart will always be something we treasure and hope to emulate.
    We will miss you forever, until we meet again.
    Jade & Connor xxx

    Jade & Connor
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    Thoughts with you all.

    Mark and Dawn and Tom.
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    Our thoughts are with you.♥️

    Karen and Gerry

    Rest in Peace Jon xx

    Amanda Rose
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    Dear Jon, it was such a pleasure to have known you, you were an amazing husband to Jo and kept her headed lifted high at all times. Even through the hard times, you out Jo and your children before yourself. A dear father and husband, sad to hear someone so kind can be taken so soon. I hope you are at rest now and i know you will continue to look after your family xxx

    Kelly

    Marvellous times in our youth – gone to the great Stonehenge festival in the sky. My condolences to all Jon’s family.

    Ian Lower
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    Jon was a very special man. In the few times I met him through his cancer journey he was upbeat, positive and had a real sense of calm and a great sense of humour.
    I am thinking of you jo, and his children.
    You were his inspiration xx

    Simone Patterson
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    Jon was one of the nicest people to work with.
    Jo and girls, I am so sorry for your loss, and that also applies to his 2 sons. He often spoke of his family at work and he was very proud of all of you.
    Commiserations.

    Ian
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    Jon, I’d like to thank you for always making me feel part of the family. I have loved being part of family events and you and Jo always made me feel so comfortable and made it enjoyable. I will miss your open-mindedness and interesting and deep conversations. Because of you I always try to see all the sides of the story because, as one of your favourite shirts says, “I think you’ll find it’s more complicated than that”. You are possibly the bravest person I’ve ever met and have battled so hard, for so long. You’ve been an amazing husband, father and friend to many people and you will always hold a special place in my heart. I will remember your advice and life lessons and will take that with me in everything I do. I know your children will too. And I will never forget the fun nights out with the family and your unique taste in music.

    Thank you for everything, love you lots.

    Hannah

    Hannah Gulliver
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    Always there next door, always positive. Thank you for being such a good neighbour.

    The Marshalls

    What times we had, Jon! I’ll forever miss your dry wit, ever present smile, sense of right, ability to argue any point (sometimes for the fun of it!) and of course, our music. My thoughts are with all your family.
    I hope that magical mystery tour up there takes in some old jazz n blues, folk, or crazy progy space rock for you… rest easy my friend.

    Greg
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    It must have been around 1994 when I first met Jon and Jo. Pretty soon after meeting, Jo asked me to join their band, Missing Link, as second guitar player aside Martin and John.
    We became good friends and I enjoyed playing with them and indulging in one of Jon’s favourite passions of listening to and watching music – including trips to Cropredy.
    It was a great privilege to be Jon’s Best Man at his and Jo’s wedding.
    When Jo was expecting their second child, Alex, Jono and me went with Jon, Jo and Rosie to Cornwall to watch the Total Solar Eclipse. We had a great time, even though it was cloudy when the moment we’d all been waiting for arrived. Some months later Jon delivered Olivia into the world.
    One of the qualities that really stood out about Jon was his patience and ability to listen. This served as a great skill for his family and friends as we all felt the benefit of Jon’s listening, analysis and support at one time or another.
    Even though Jon’s health created issues for him in recent years, he always seemed to remain positive even though it must have been painful and scary for him.
    I know he was very proud of Jo and all of his children and the people they have become.
    I feel lucky to have known and spent time with Jon and I can say for sure that he left a positive impression on me and hopefully changed me for the better.
    RIP Jon xx

    Sean Moir
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    Jon has been a neighbour of ours for many years, always happy to stand and have a chat. Although he has had his own battle for some years now, he would still stand out with us in the street and clap for the NHS each week. Such a brave man and has left an amazing legacy to his family. Our thoughts are with you Jo, Rosie, Olivia and family xxx

    Dave and Bev
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    You were my friend and mentor and I’m going to miss you Jon.
    We worked together for many years and we always had a bit of fun over a beer at the end of the day.
    He was very proud of his family, best wishes to all of you.

    Mark Towsey
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